Earlier today I was listening to a Pandora mix I entitled “Flog Me, I’m Irish” and an advertisement said, “Why be monogamous with your sound selection?” Which I thought was pretty cool, until it went on to imply that the opposite of monogamy is promiscuity, a word which has some pretty negative connotations of indiscriminate […]
A friend of mine, Clarisse Thorn, is organizing this project, so I just thought I’d put the word out. “Your Personal Kink” Contact: Clarisse Thorn 773.761.9200 clarisse at leatherarchives dot org The Leather Archives & Museum, a cultural center in Chicago devoted to preserving the history of alternative sexuality, wants your help documenting the experiences […]
A few days ago, I had my first tattoo done, and I’d like to talk about that process from an SM/pain perspective. Being familiar with pain, I knew I could handle it; but it was still a new experience, so I was a little apprehensive. In a nutshell, it wasn’t really that bad. There were […]
I am really not all that into bondage. For some reason, that feels a bit hard for me to admit openly to the BDSM community. It seems like it’s almost expected that people be into it — I mean hell, it’s the first letter in BDSM! I’ve heard others say that they like bondage because […]
Okay, I know I haven’t posted in a while, but… FetLife.com is doing a “Sit on Kinky Santa’s Lap” promotion and giving away nearly $25,000 worth of kinky toys and equipment. So if you haven’t already, get on there and fill out your kinky wishlist!
For the past 4 days I’ve been hit by the flu, or a bad cold, or something that’s making me feel cruddy. This has resulted in me missing one party thrown by some of my lifestyle friends, a play party at the local dungeon, and a fetish ball. A new friend of mine was the […]