Comments on: Guilt in BDSM http://bdsmweblog.com/2010/02/04/guilt-in-bdsm/ My thoughts on, and experiences in, the BDSM lifestyle Thu, 29 Dec 2011 17:34:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Sammael http://bdsmweblog.com/2010/02/04/guilt-in-bdsm/comment-page-1/#comment-59 Sammael Fri, 05 Feb 2010 03:21:25 +0000 http://bdsmweblog.com/?p=130#comment-59 Yeah, sometimes the media is a boon to BDSM... but that's the exception and not the rule. Generally tops are portrayed as psychopathic monsters, and bottoms are portrayed as crazies. With vanillas I've found it best to start out by saying that I'm into rough sex, and take it from there. :) Yeah, sometimes the media is a boon to BDSM… but that’s the exception and not the rule. Generally tops are portrayed as psychopathic monsters, and bottoms are portrayed as crazies. With vanillas I’ve found it best to start out by saying that I’m into rough sex, and take it from there. :)

]]> By: Tom Allen http://bdsmweblog.com/2010/02/04/guilt-in-bdsm/comment-page-1/#comment-58 Tom Allen Fri, 05 Feb 2010 02:33:12 +0000 http://bdsmweblog.com/?p=130#comment-58 <i>For bottoms, there is the stigma that only crazy people want pain</i> This ha been a constant source of psychic pain for me, especially during those times when I've had partners who were more vanilla. It's very difficult to explain about kink in general, but I have found it nearly impossible to discuss why I'd want to bottom - it immediately brings up the humiliating images portrayed by movies and tv. For bottoms, there is the stigma that only crazy people want pain

This ha been a constant source of psychic pain for me, especially during those times when I’ve had partners who were more vanilla. It’s very difficult to explain about kink in general, but I have found it nearly impossible to discuss why I’d want to bottom – it immediately brings up the humiliating images portrayed by movies and tv.

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